Hypnosis is an art that takes a long time to get. If done wrong, you look like a weird person who is always trying to do mind control as in the cartoons.
However, when done right, you’ll hold a certain degree of power over people’s ability to think and do what you want them to. There is the moral question about hypnotizing someone without their knowledge, but that is something you have to deal with on a personal level.
Hypnosis is about taking control of someone’s mind and actions, and that should be something not taken lightly.
In this article, we are going to explore how to hypnotize someone instantly.
It is crucial to understand that “instantly” is relative because there is a process. Thus, expect it to take even as long as five minutes to get the results that you want.
Instant hypnosis is a well-kept secret by those who can do it, but with practice, you can cut it down to less than five minutes.
Even if they agree, it will take more effort on your part because you’re coming from a place of deficit in trust.
Hypnotizing people you know is more comfortable because they already trust you enough.
For strangers, you first need to make the right first impression and have them warm up to you.
If someone is cold toward you, that is not the right subject to try your new skills on.
Instead, practice on someone who warms up to you. They are more open to listening to what you have to say.
Keep eye contact to build trust
You can maintain eye contact without being creepy. Donot then full-on stare at someone for the entire time, at least at the beginning.
Have appropriate eye contact with the person, keeping your eyes warm and welcoming. Equally, have a smile, nothing too big; you don’t want to show teeth when all that’s being talked about is the weather.
Eye contact and a smile signal to the other person that you have an interest in them and what they have to say. Once they return in kind, you’re ready for your next step.
As you beginning the hypnosis process, still maintain eye contact.
We will get into the ambiguity, commands, and suggestion in a few, but this part requires emphasis if you’re to pull off full-on hypnosis instantly.
People who feel they are listened to have their guard down, making them more likely candidates for hypnosis.
Power and confidence
That’s the other thing you have to establish early on; power.
It is not about being dominant and ruling over another person. It is the confidence that you can plant thoughts and thus, actions, in someone’s mind. If you’re hesitant, you won’t be quick about it.
If anything, you’ll abandon the venture halfway because you’ll notice nothing’s happening.
Consider a salesperson; are you going to purchase a product from them that you don’t believe in?
No. It is the same with hypnosis. The commands are typically put forth as suggestions, though you’ve over overwriting their ability to negate a demand.
Therefore, you want to start with people, from their behavior and words, have shown that they are suggestible. It will take less time to have them “sleep” “relax” “let’s dance” or whatever you want them to do.
For that, you need confidence in the power you have to do hypnosis.
Types of non-verbal reinforcements
Another trick that hypnotists use if they want instant results is using physical reinforcements such as yawning, fanning yourself, or making a specific motion when you mention the world party.
Make them subtle as you don’t want to throw people off.
As for the bored friend, in previous phrases, you can do a slight head bob when saying the word ‘party.’
Follow through with the same gestures throughout the hypnosis process.
The cues work best when you’re in a group as you’re able to read who are responding best to you. If you say ‘this party is fun,’ watch who reacts positively to what you’ve said.
It will be evident in their facial expression and body language. That then becomes the best person to hypnotize. From there, you can earn their trust through the skills mentioned, leaving them at your mercy.
The next one is the handshake. You must let the person know that you want to hypnotize them.
The reason is that when you don’t, it gets awkward after a while of handshaking and people will be aware that you’re up to something. It is also in alerting them that you’re able to know if they are open to it.
That is the case unless you’re practicing mindfulness.
Coupled with words and non-verbal reinforcements, you’re able to perform the hypnosis and more so instantly.
The best candidates for hypnosis are those who have trust in you and are suggestible.
Endure that you cultivate that in the first place before attempting anything. There is also what is required on your part, such as ensuring that you have created trust with the person.
It means maintaining eye contact, smiling and in general, creating an excellent first impression, especially to strangers.
Once you’re in the right space, continue to use ambiguous phrases to confuse your subject and slip in the command. Notice the shift in them and continue with talking using the same structure shown in the example.
Within seconds or minutes, the person will be doing what you commanded them to do in the first place.
All this requires inner power and confidence to believe that you do indeed have the capability to hypnotize another person.
Also resources such as Conversational Hypnosis by Igor Ledochowski that makes instant hypnosis much easier are helpful too.